FETISH DICTIONARY

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Algolagnia---Love of pain, from the Greek. Psychological term to describe SM preferred by sexologist Havelock Ellis, who saw it as 'pain given in love'. Perhaps useful to describe that element of SM that is about the enjoyment of pain itself rather than acting out domination and submission. Ellis's definition is quoted in the Boundaries section of the Dynamics and Definitions Sourcesheet
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Altocalciphilia---Fetish for High Heels
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Ampallang---Horizontal piercing through the penis
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Anal---Pertaining to the anus
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Aroma Therapy---To worship the odors from a Mistress's/Masters feet, genital area, anus, armpit or other
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Ashtray Worship---When a slave licks, smells or eats the contents of his Mistress's/Masters ashtray to prove his worthiness
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Assplay---Any activity involving the buttocks or anus
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Assworship---Fetishistic, ardent adoration of the buttocks
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Blackmail Fantasy---To trap and force a slave into admitting informative needed by the Mistress's/Masters thru the threatening of being revealed to the public, spouse or other
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Bondage---A state of subjugation to a force or governing influence; in physical terms, to be tied, bound or restrained.
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Boot worship---To adore, clean, and lick the boots of thou Mistress
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Branding---To place a heated metal iron to the flesh of a slave that leaves a permeneant mark for the purpose of ownership or decoration
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Breast Worship---To kiss, lick,smell or suck the mammory glands of thy Mistress
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Breath Play---To control the air flow of a slave
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Brown Shower---The release of feces onto another or in their mouth
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Caining/Cane---A flogging or beating which utilizes a bamboo rod or stick
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Candle Play---Pertains to usage of a mass of wax or fatty substance that contains an embedded wick, and activities that involve its usage, such as fire, burning and hot wax
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Canine Training---The training of a slave to become a dog, included but not limited to leash training, sitting,staying, barking and eating dog food out of a dog bowl and begging for bones and other dog treats
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Castration Fantasy---Fantasy involving the dismembering of the male sexual organs
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Catheter---A plastic tube inserted thru the penis or urethra used to drain the bladder
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Catheterization---The act of draining the bladder (see above)
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Cbt---Abbreviation for cock and ball torture, the infliction of pain upon male genetalia.
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Celibacy Training---With the use of a device, verbal and mental control, one is told when he or she may climax
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Chastity Device---A metal, plastic, or other device that is locked over the penis and controlled by the Mistress/Master; used to prevent a slave from either being erect, and/or climaxing
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Chastity Training---The control of ones genital organs that include full control over arousal and climax
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Corporal---That which specifically relates to the body and is considered heavy in sadistic play
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Corset Training---Refers to instruction concerning the usage of a close fitting feminine undergarment, often worn to support the waistline, and shape the breasts and hips.
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Crop---A small whip. often used in horseback riding.
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Crossdresser/Crossdressing---One who dresses in the clothing characteristics of the opposite sex; the practice of dressing in the clothing of the opposite sex.
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Crucifix---A figure or image of Jesus on the cross; a symbol of the crucifixion of Christ.
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Diaper/Diaper Training---Absorbent materials worn around the waist to contain excretions, commonly used on infants, also utilized by incontinent adults...the use of these absorbent materials as a manner of instruction or learning, perhaps as a fetishistic activity while involved in infantilism or other regressive states
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Dildo---Any object used as a substitute for an erect penis.
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Dildo Training---To train certain areas of the body ( mouth, Vagina or anus) to accept a dildo in physical and emotion ways. As a form of submission or pleasure.
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Degradation---To embarrass, humiliate and lesson ones own self worth in a grotesque manner for the purpose of entertainment. The highest level of humiliation
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Dehumanization---When a slave acts as an object rather then a person ( e.g. foot stool, seat, shoe rack,,ashtray,etc.)
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Electrical Play---The use of equipment such as the violet wand, tens unit, and electronic paddles that send electrical impulse for stimulation, punishment or pain.
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Enema---A plastic nozzle attached to a bag of water is inserted into the rectum and held briefly for the purpose of cleansing and detoxifying before release.
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Equestrian Training---Training a slave to act as a horse by teaching commands, walking ,trotting, cantering techniques and reinforcing with apple, carrot and other treats. Sometimes sheathing (removing the first layer of skin on the penis with a special brush) may be imperative in maximum training situations
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Face Sitting---To sit on the slaves face and restrict his breathing; yet allowing for a view or smell of the genital area
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Face Slapping---To strike the face of a slave with the palm of the hand
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Face Spitting---To emit saliva from ones mouth with force that it lands on the face of a slave.
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Fantasy---A desire that is dreamed about or can be reenacted through a professional Fetish Session
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Financial Abuse Fantasy---To take money or gifts from a slave at the Mistress's demand
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Fisting---To enclose the hand in a tight position so it fits into the rectum of a slaves vagina or anus
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Forced Bisexuality Fantasy---A slave is forced to be sexually active with another of the same sex
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Forced Feminization---Putting the slave in verbal or physical restriction so one is able to transform him into a female
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Gag---Anything that is placed in the slaves mouth so he may not speak
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Gas Mask---In the realm of fetish a mask that fits snug and the breathing of a slave is controlled and manipulated by his/her Mistress
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Golden Shower---To urinate on or into a slaves mouth
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Grovel---To beg or plea
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Hood---A textured fitted covering for the face of a slave to prevent sight , hearing and or smell
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Heat Play---The use of cold and hot implements for contrasting sensations
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Harness---A device that prevents one from arousal
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Human Ashtray---To act as an ashtray for thy Mistress using ones mouth and body for ash elimination and putting out cigarettes
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Humiliation---To verbally abuse and poke fun at a slave for your own amusement
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Interrogation Fantasy---Retrieving desired information from a slave by intimidating with mental or physical force
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Infantilism---The act of regression from adult to toddler or baby by a slave that includes but is not limited to infant dressing , bottle feeding, breast feeding and diaper/toilet training
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Interrogation Fantasy---Retrieving desired information from a slave by intimidating with mental or physical force
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Kidnapping Fantasy---To be forcefully taken and kept hostage by the Mistress
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Latex---A material derived from rubber and used for clothing and fetish toys
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Latex Worship---To lick , smell and polish the Mistress's latex outfit
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Leather---A material derived from the hide of an animal
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Leather Worship---adoration or ardent attention given to such materials
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Maid Training---To instruct in the practice of behaving as a female servant
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Mannerism---A distinctive style or trait
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Medical Role Play---A slave assumes the role of patient while the Mistress becomes the Doctor or Nurse
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Mummification---The practice of wrapping the body
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Nipple Torture---To inflict pain or discomfort upon the extrusion near the center of the mammary gland
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(OTK) Over The Knee Spanking---The slapping of the buttocks in a position across the lap
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Paddling---Striking of the buttocks with a flattened board
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Phone Freak---Someone who derives pleasure or gratification via the use of the telephone and booking false appointments with the Mistress
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Piercing---To penetrate or pass through, often accomplished with a sharp instrument or needle
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Public Humiliation---The act of being shamed or disgraced in an open, group or social environment
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Punching---To strike a blow, commonly with a fisted hand
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Rape Fantasy---A contrived scenario constructed to simulate an act of rape, a simulated situation in which one submits to an act of sexual intercourse
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Roman Shower---Regurgitation, vomiting on or into the slaves mouth or body
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Role-play---Acting or characterization in a performance or imaginary setting
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Saint Andrews Cross---An X -shaped figure used to restrain the slave
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Scarification---The practice of creating superficial cuts on the skin
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Scat--- Eating, smelling, and licking feces
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Sensory Deprivation---To deny one the usage of sight, smell, sound, taste and/or feel
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Shoe Fetish---An objectified devotion to footwear
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Sissy Training---To instruct a male in the manners and practices of effeminacy
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Slapping---The striking of the face, often using the opened palm of the hand
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Slut Training---To prepare or coach a person in the manners and practices associated with sexual promiscuity
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Smoking Fetish---Impassioned attention afforded one engaged in the act of smoking
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Smothering---To suffocate, or cut off oxygen supply with the breasts, buttocks , armpits, hands ,feet or mouth
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Sounds---Metal tubular structures in a variety of widths that are inserted into the penis of a slave
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Spanking---To strike the buttocks with the hand in a slapping manner
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Spreader Bars---A wooden or metal piece of equipment used to separate , restrain and spread the legs of a slave
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Spitting---To deposit or spray saliva directly from the mouth
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Super Hero Role Play---A scenario in which some or all of the persons involved are of a supernatural nature
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Suspension---To anchor a slaves body off the ground to make them even more helpless
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Temperature Play---Use of hot or cold conditions or implements
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Tens Unit---A series of electrical probes placed on the slave during electrical or heat play
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Tickling Fetish---Enjoyment of light, sensitive, tingling sensations caused to evoke laughter or writhing
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Transsexual---A male that lives his daily life as a female and usually opts to use hormones and/or breast implants to accommodate his/her femininity
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Transvestite---A male that segregates time to act and dress as a female
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Uniform/Military Worship---A fascination with recognizable persons of authority
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Verbal Abuse---To berate or chastise via the use of harsh language, words or names
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Violet Wand---An electrical device with different attachments used for electric play
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Voyeur---One who derives gratification by observing
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Whipping---To beat or physically punish by flogging or lashing

Wrestling---To struggle or grapple with your Mistress or another