Your kinky?? So what..

What many men and women like fantasize about and crave can seems bizarre, unscrupulous and down right mean to suppressed ignorant individuals. I cannot express enough that liking kinky stimulus does not make someone 'abnormal'. Facing your uniqueness in fact makes you a stronger individual. Understanding it and allowing expression makes the two of you as a couple more supreme, stronger. Intimacy couldn’t be more defined and bonding.


Let’s talk about spanking. The line between the ass and the thighs (were they meet) is considered an erogenous zone. It is a super sensitive hot-spot. It can cause a severe stinging type pain and arousal as well. I know some women that can orgasm from having that spot worked on. Remember that everyone is wired differently. Some people like vanilla ice cream, while others like chocolate, where as some are ticklish in spots where others are desensitized. Only your partner or client knows what he/she likes. And it’s up to the two of you to explore.

Nipples speak. There is a voltage that directly wires itself to the pubic area. My nipples are super sensitive. Touching them is the next best thing to touching my pussy. They converse with each other. For some, their nipples need more reasoning. This translates to more play. Play sometimes can be perceived as pain to others. I have clients that ENJOY heavy nipple clamps. The nipples TALK to the crotch – plain and simple, heavy or light or sensual or sadistic.

Taboo. We all like a thrill. Some prefer to fantasize about it - others want to live it. But the closer that ideal takes us to the thrill, the more of a charge we perceive. I won’t lie, some fantasies are best kept as fantasies, but there isn't any reason why we can’t amplify them and bring them to the edge of reality. But on the other hand, living in a short chaotic world, why not live out a fantasy or two? Safety should be your guideline.

There are a zillion motivational and sexual thoughts that drive us to excitement. Never push them away. Sharing them is much more fun. Seek safety and the right person…..and live your life!